But I will keep in touch with John, politely and slightly. He provides a template of people who are fearful, indecisive, feeble and prone to circumstances. Zhang Xiaoyu said that you are the average version of five people you deal with most frequently. Then I get it:
Li reflects my old-school and serious upbringing and my self-hiding in entertainment tendency and superficial echoing of his opinions;
Xie reflects my reading habit, tendency for deep thinking and recognition of introvertedness;
Xiaohong reflects my hanker to have a more practical and clear head and staunch will both for thinking, acting and possible interpersonal interaction;
Way reflects my hope to connect with the external world and passionate part.
John reflects my inner fear, indecision, dependency, suppression of dependency and proneness to circumstances.
It’s a revealing find.
Which could also be a pool for to choose. Which to strengthen and which to recognize and transform. Simply put, they boil down to two ways: the prospering of life and the shrinking of life.
Among the last line, a landscape of life will surface.
Then it’s the concrete path.